Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Home at Last, Home at Last; Thank God Almighty, I’m Home at Last!

I think Dorothy said it best; “There’s no place like home.” It seems like I closed my eyes and clicked my pedals together three times, and I was back in Gaylord. Just like the Wizard of Oz, my world was in vivid Technicolor for the past month, but when all is said and done, there’s nothing better than the security of home and the love of family and friends. And I am home.

What a final day. I couldn’t have dreamed of anything finer. To begin with, I visited Roscommon High School and met many students and staff from my Spring student teaching experience. All semester long they heard me talking about my cycling adventure. Many students were incredulous, and said stuff like “There’s no way you can do that, Mr. Bono.” It was cool to prove them wrong and to show that small people can do big things. I hope my adventure gives them motivation to be excellent at everything they do, and to dream big dreams and live life large.

I stopped in Grayling on my way home, and ate lunch at the Grayling Restaurant while talking with a Kim Shine from the Detroit Free Press. She said they will be doing an article in Sunday’s paper about my trip. Awesome – my 15 minutes of fame! I also hooked up with the fellow who sold me my bike, Bob Smith at The Bicycle Shop, and thanked him for helping me decide on the right bike and equipment for my trip.

A buddy of mine, Dan Yarsevich, showed up on his motorcycle while I was in downtown Grayling, and I knew it wouldn’t take much longer to be closing out my ride. Dan accompanied me the rest of the trip, and I think he also served as an “advance scout” for the events to follow. My kids, Adam and Andrea wanted me to call them when I reached Waters, a small town 15 miles south of Gaylord. I was getting ready to call, when I saw Trooper Ron Rabineau (who commented that he would provide a police escort into Gaylord) and my children. After some hugs and handshakes, they escorted me the rest of the trip. A few miles later, Mark Lambert (aka – Mr. Cleaning Lady) pulled a fire engine into the procession, with my bowling/euchre buddy Tim Warren following in an ambulance. Lights were flashing, horns were blowing and people were pulling off the side of the road to let us through. Oh, my gosh. You’ve got to be kidding me.

When we pulled in front of Gerta’s Draperies (my wife’s business), I couldn’t believe my eyes. About 75 people waved and cheered me on, all wearing tee shirts that Andrea designed (with a little help from Kathy at Embroidery Today.) The reception reminded me of something out of a movie, and I just couldn’t believe my eyes. Christa had been working on it frantically, and all I can say is that I was overwhelmed. It’s beautiful to think that I touched so many lives. What more can I say.

I can’t begin naming the friends and family who were there, except for my folks, whom you always need to mention. Mayor Solokis awarded me a Proclamation from the City of Gaylord, which was eloquently written by Joe Duff, the City Manager and a camping partner. Stan Dombrowski from Maier and Associates awarded a $2,400 donation to the Kyle Casey Scholarship Fund. Best of all, I shared the experience with Sue and Pat Casey, Kyle’s parents whom agreed with me that no words could describe the love we were feeling. Amen.

The whole celebration was a little humbling. What I did was pretty cool, but I don’t really want people thinking of me as “a hero” for pulling off my cycling escapade. I’d rather they look at me as an example of someone who has a dream and took the action to make it happen. Examples are meant to be followed. Follow it by making your own dream come true.

NOTE: There will be two more entries to my blog. The first will be some fast facts that might interest you and that I would like to remember but won’t, unless they are written down. The second will highlight the lessons I learned over the past month.

I will be putting a “guestbook” on the site before my final blog entries. Please let me know who you are and that you joined me for my adventure. Your “virtual participation” means so much to me that I would like to hear from you. Thanks!

PS: Thanks for the pictures, Al and Sandy.

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

Great to have someone to cuddle with in bed besides the dog! I want to thank everyone for making the coming home event go smoothly, especially my best GF, Terry; Ron & Justin Hacker; Carol, Karen (the cleaning lady) & Mark; Ron Rabineau & Tim Warren; Adam & Andrea; Diane (Lady Di)& Joe Duff; Dan Y.; Pat & Sue Casey and especially Mom & Dad Bono for printing out over 100 pages of Blogs & comments for us to keep forever. Love You Guys!

Lady Di said...

It was very exciting to be a part of it from beginnin to end. What a ride it was.
Thanks to the Charlie-Mon.
You did good Christa.
Lookin forward to the eco-challenge and more good times together.
Lady Di

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Charlie,

I work with your brother Joe. He introduced us to your adventure and several of us have been following along.

Congratulations on achieving your dream!

Marty

KNITWHIT said...

Wish I could have been there for the homecoming, but shop-owing wouldn't permit! Congratulations, Charlie, on completely a great adventure -- oh, that life could always be one great adventure!

What an inspiration!

Maureen

Anonymous said...

Charlie, Christa, Adam, & Andrea,
What a team!!
Tears of joy for sure!
I'm glad your Papa Bear is home safe, thanks for letting us take the adventure with you. The girls at the bowling alley had a super idea! I know Pat & Sue really loved it too !
What was the grand total on the miles?
Are you selling the T-Shirts ???
Dawn

Anonymous said...

Great ride charlie, We wouldn't have missed your homecoming and the wonderful people of Gaylord waiting to welcoming you home. Christa you are truly the greatest organizer there ever was. Police , fire truck ambulance escort to Gerta's store. well we are home again and catching up on our things to do list, that we haven't done these past three weeks. Mom is at her Condo board meeting and i am getting ready for the K of C meeting tonight (being the trustee, I have to run this years election of officers tonight but first everyone here is asking about my famous cyclist Charlie. It was great to spend the night there and visit with Christa, Adam, Andrea and you. I know that your feet are on the ground again and your raring to go with other adventureous things like the play . God Speed. Love Dad & Mom

Anonymous said...

Chaz!
You did it! Sounds like Christa set up a sweet homecoming! I'm proud of you brother. What a huge accomplishment and a bunch of great memories!
Love you brother!
Cathy

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Charlie. To paraphrase Bill and Ted, you completed an "excellent adventure".
Are there any more of the commerative t-shirts left for sale? for those of us who couldn't make it to Gaylord?

You're still the man...

Ed M

Anonymous said...

Great job Charlie - I had no doubt that you would complete your mission. Thank you for sharing your adventure with use. We miss you in PA.

Kim

Anonymous said...

WELCOME HOME CHARLIE!!!!!!!!
Congatulations cuz on accomplishing one of your goals. I am sure glad you made it home safe and sound.I wish I could have been there for your homecoming it sounded greeeeat.Well it was neat keeping in touch with your blogs, so now lets keep in touch with e mail, I wrote yours down and heres mine again and that goes for the rest of the family too. philldogg@comcast.net.Well Im sitting here watching the wings go down and I just cant take anymore so I am off to bed, and again I am the last comment again :[ take care cuz.
Phyllis

Anonymous said...

Hi Charlie, Christa & Family

WELCOME HOME CHARLIE MON!

LUCAS & I STOPPED TO SEE YOU @ GERTA'S ON MONDAY @ 4:50 P.M. & NO ONE WAS THEIR (THOUGHT IT WENT UNTIL 5PM). SO SORRY WE MISSED SEEING YA, BUT WELCOME HOME!
YOU DID IT MON! A DREAM FULFILLED!

KATHY & LUCAS

P.S. TERRY SAID HE GOT TO SEE SO THATS COOL!

Claire said...

Charlie,

I couldn't help but have tears in my eyes as I read your coming home blog. It really touched my heart - the whole thing, Charlie, you having a dream and then actually doing it, the kindness of strangers along the way, your family and all the love and support you received. You could feel it over this blog! Christa, Adam and Andrea what a wonderful welcome! Congratulations Charlie on your most excellent adventure!
We are all so proud of you.
Love you bro! Claire Ann

Lady Di said...

Charlie-Mon
What are you doing today?
J/W
Lady Di

Lady Di said...

I think I need bloggin anonymous....:-)

Anonymous said...

Charlie, What a fantastic accomplishment. I have followed your trip the whole way. I met you at a drink station in Pasco Co. Fl, shortly after you started on the Suncoast Trail. Another fella, Sandy and myself had also stopped for water. You the man Charlie!
Thanks for all the entertaining
commentary. Rich

Anonymous said...

Welcome Home.... wish that i could have been there.

Mike Somers

Anonymous said...

Good Job Charlie !!!!!!!!

You have many people thinking about THEIR dreams......

God Bless.........
from "Nana from Ontario, Canada"

Anonymous said...

Charlie,
Thanks for the adventure!I've kept up with your daily writings. I loved your comments about all the people you met and how wonderful they all were. Thanks for the fun. Ann Denno (Saginaw)

Anonymous said...

I've been trying to write on this "blog" for 3 days and as Charlie said their are no words to describe how I feel.It was sooo good to see Charlie home and one of his dreams completed.I know he has inspired people to know their dreams and do them and not wait until tomorrow.Charlie spent alot of time over the years with the "slackers" and Kyle would come home with a smile and talk of the great times they had.

Christa did a great job,everything was perfect and the weather showed Charlie why he started in Fla.
Yes their are extra t-shirts and knowing Kathy at Embroidery Today they are easy to get.Just post sizes or e-mail me at suekc13@hotmail.com.

Joe Duff,who I met for the first time monday very nice man perfect for Lady Di.He wrote the proclamation given to Charlie from the Mayor.It was the best paper I believe I have ever read.I almost know it by heart and yes I cry every time.If anyone wants a copy I can send that too. Charlie was also in the Bay City paper Saturday the 19th.Nice pictures and good article.

As far as money for the scholarship It will at least be 5000.00.We will add what it takes to get there if it doesn't on it's own.I thank everyone who sent a donation and any amount is greatly appreciated.I didn't care what he made but I know it inspired Charlie.
For me just hearing and seeing my son name every day was such a honor.
Sue

Lady Di said...

Amen Sue!!!
I was swallowin hard and chokin back my tears when Gladys read Charlie the proclamation and then I bawled all over again when I read your blog.
I can't imagine what your family has endured but how wonderful to have this legacy.
Since I am having blog withdrawals I am still checkin in...
after careful examination and many double checks...
I do believe Christa is reachin for Charlie's backside....anyone, anyone...
Great job Charlie, Congratulations to the Casey family. How nice each year to be able to provide such a genorous gift, in honor of your son, to another young man.
Do I have to comment about everything? I guess so....apologies...apologies
Rock On.
Lady Di

Anonymous said...

Hey Charlie, welcome home and way to go! Looking for the guest book to sign but couldn't see it? How do I sign it?

Hope to see you soon in TC for lunch or a drink - my treat!

Love you,

Barbara